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Hello, friends! It's about to be December again, and you know what that means: the fact I am posting this actually before December 1 means [staff profile] karzilla reminded me about the existence of linear time again. Wait, no -- well, yes, but also -- okay, look, let me back up and start again: it's almost December, and that means it's time for our annual December holiday points bonus.

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On behalf of Mark, Jen, Robby, and our team of awesome volunteers, and to each and every one of you, whether you've been with us on this wild ride since the beginning or just signed up last week, I'm wishing you all a very happy set of end-of-year holidays, whichever ones you celebrate, and hoping for all of you that your 2026 is full of kindness, determination, empathy, and a hell of a lot more luck than we've all had lately. Let's go.

it's that time again!

Nov. 29th, 2025 09:21 am
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holiday love meme 2025
my thread here


If you're not familiar with this: you comment on the post with your username(s), and then people ANONYMOUSLY leave comments on why they like you.

Hampton Court Palace

Nov. 29th, 2025 11:41 am
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For Bea's birthday the two of us went to see Hampton Court Palace as neither of us had been before.



It was very good, although also a little chilly.

Ghostly Rings and Skeleton Keys

Nov. 28th, 2025 10:18 pm
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The Seven Rings by Nora Roberts is the completion of her Lost Brides trilogy, which I've been waiting a year for - and it didn't disappoint! I love the set of characters working together to break the curse in these books - even if they didn't actually properly start working on that until 90% through the third book... I'm sure a lot of readers will have been frustrated throughout this series by the lengthy, drawn-out, mostly mundane nature of the story - but I actually really enjoyed all the stuff with the pets and the characters working on their businesses and the gradual romance and the sailing and the small town community building, etc. The periodic intrusions of the evil ghost were what annoyed me more than anything because it was just so repetitive. A character would be alone in the house, the ghost would frighten or threaten them (often by trapping them in one of the rooms and throwing things at them), they would escape, the other characters would rush round to help and arrive after the fact, and the affected character would explain what happened - over and over and over again, which did get a bit wearing.

And then, when we finally got to the breaking of the curse, it was all over extremely quickly and felt way too easy, with not nearly enough aftermath. Still, those minor annoyances aside, I really enjoyed this whole series overall, and there was a lot to love about how everything got wrapped up in this instalment. I've completed another Nora Roberts trilogy with a very similar format and plot in the interim, so I may not be visiting more of her back catalogue for a while, but I'll definitely give the next trilogy a try when the first one inevitably comes out in November 2026.


The Skeleton Key by Erin Kelly has been on my wishlist for a while, since someone at a reading retreat recommended it to me ages ago - and then I spotted it in a local charity shop last week and immediately read it, since I was looking for a book to round out the month.

It tells the story of Frank Churcher, who writes a book of imagined folklore, with a complex puzzle built into it in the 1970s, which captures the imagination of a group of treasure hunters, who get dangerously obsessed with solving the mystery. This puts various of Frank's family in danger over the ensuing decades, until he decides to stage a media event around the fiftieth anniversary of the book's publication and things derail even further in unexpected ways.

The book is less thriller-y than I expected - in a good way - and much more layered and involving, with a split timeline gradually building up the history of events, and complex family relationships evolving and devolving over the course of the book.

I really liked the main POV character, Nell, Frank's oldest daughter, and the development of her arc with her foster daughter was my favourite aspect of the book. The main mystery was still compelling, though it got a bit too drawn out towards the end. Things didn't resolve the way I was expecting, though, and there were some complex moral aspects to the conclusion that were really interesting.

This kept me engaged throughout and I read it pretty quickly, though I was never tempted to skim.

Question thread #146

Nov. 28th, 2025 02:06 am
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It's time for another question thread!

The rules:

- You may ask any dev-related question you have in a comment. (It doesn't even need to be about Dreamwidth, although if it involves a language/library/framework/database Dreamwidth doesn't use, you will probably get answers pointing that out and suggesting a better place to ask.)
- You may also answer any question, using the guidelines given in To Answer, Or Not To Answer and in this comment thread.

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Nov. 27th, 2025 09:14 pm
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I kind of want to try writing here again, partly just as a way of getting things out of my head, partly because this is a record of so much of my life and partly just because (I mean I absolutely do still read even if I'm rubbish at commenting).

I suspect by now anyone still reading here will have seen this news elsewhere but given I haven't posted since May(?!)

Dad died on Saturday 25 October 2025, only a few days after Mum had been told her chemo wasn't working any more. Two weeks later on Saturday 8 November 2025 Mum died as well. We had their funeral together on the 17 November and to be honest everything mostly feels surreal and strange. Immediately after Dad died I actually slept loads better than I had in weeks (months) but that effect has completely worn off now. I'm still living in our house of course which helps (it's familiar) and doesn't (a lot of memories) and currently I seem to still be waking at the slightest noise and my brain immediately fills in that one of them needs me which of course isn't true.

So here we are. But Christmas is coming soon and everyone is here for Christmas including nibling (who continues to be an amazing human being) AND nibling 2.0 (in utero) which is exciting.

And because I also sometimes use this as a place to keep things I want to look back on this is a poem I related to a lot when I read it last month.

Steadying Myself

Every day is moving
Destabilising
Each new one stamped
With a health and safety warning
Talking with someone
Then, walking on down the street
I stop myself
Lean against a wall
Sit down.

Some days I have to stop this moving life
To receive it
As if everything is trying to explain itself to me
All at once and in these
Faint and distant scintillas
Lost inside fragments of seconds
I know how briefly and beautifully
We are here
How deep still calls to deep
Even if deep doesn't know how to reply
And I steady myself to continue

But sometimes
I fall down.

- Martin Wroe

Lord's

Nov. 25th, 2025 08:44 pm
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Today's Awayday was at Lord's. There were a lot of queues (lunch was the worst) and also it was on the chilly side. However, it was somewhere I've never been to before and the sessions were good. Plus I got to see a lot of people in person from UK offices other than London.

A Witch's Guide to Magical Innkeeping

Nov. 25th, 2025 01:46 pm
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A Witch's Guide to Magical Innkeeping by Sangu Mandanna follows a similar formula to The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches (though it's not set in the same world), with the story focusing on Sera, a young witch, who loses her magic and her connection to the magical community in one fell swoop at the age of fifteen. She helps her great-aunt run an inn, fuelled by a spell that only attracts those who really need the place's comfort and security.
There's a cute romance with a slightly grumpy Scotsman, some adorable and well-written kids, various other rather eccentric adult characters, and an outside threat to the found family of the inn.
The audiobook narration was good, bringing all the characters to life very well.
It took me a while to get into the story, though, since I wasn't all that keen on Sera, and a couple of the other characters were a bit too over-the-top for me to fully attach myself to them.
Once Luke and his sister turned up, things ticked along a lot better - and it totally got me by the end, with a heartfelt and satisfying conclusion, though the ultimate climax was did feel a bit abrupt.
So, an entertaining listen, though I didn't enjoy it as much as the first one.

Key of Valor

Nov. 22nd, 2025 09:35 am
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Key of Valor concludes the Keys trilogy by Nora Roberts.
It follows the same formula as the other two - this time, it's Zoe who has to find the third and final key to unlock the box of trapped souls and brings the overall quest to a conclusion.
Despite being the one of the three women I have the least in common with, Zoe was my favourite, so I was looking forward to spending the book mostly in her perspective - and I did enjoy that.
I loved the continuation of the three women setting up their joint business, I actually really liked spending more time with Zoe's 9-yr-old son, Simon, who was really funny, and the climax of the three-book quest was exciting and satisfying.
BUT - even though I liked how it ended up (especially with the inclusion of Simon), I just couldn't get on board with the romance, because Brad, as in the other two books, was absolutely awful (until he got what he wanted, and then he was amazing, but that might make it worse...).
One scene:
Zoe is annoyed by Brad's continued advances and expresses her rejection of him very clearly.
Brad GRABS her, LIFTS her, SWINGS her round, PRESSES her up against a wall, and KISSES her - all very much without her permission.
Worse scene:
They're in the car and Zoe is annoyed that Brad is always trying to diminish her independence by doing things for her without asking her first. She tells him angrily that she doesn't want a Prince Charming to rescue her.
Brad pulls over, says, "Fuck Prince Charming," squashes Zoe up against the door and kisses her again.
Zoe SCREAMS and STRUGGLES and the narrative says that it's a straight-up contest between her strength and his, that he 'brutally' demonstrates his dominance and that the kiss has 'nothing to do with romance and everything to do with anger'.
YIKES!!
So, no - sadly, I can't condone them getting together, however beautifully their relationship is presented in the end, and however sweet and funny the interactions are between Brad and Simon.
Ah well - I still enjoyed the series a lot overall!

The Perfume Collector

Nov. 21st, 2025 08:16 pm
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The Perfume Collector by Kathleen Tessaro tells the story of Grace Munro, who receives a mysterious inheritance from a woman she's never heard of, which takes her to Paris to uncover a story of lost perfumes and unknown family connections.
It's exactly the kind of book I needed this week and I thoroughly enjoyed it from start to finish.
It's a split timeline - Grace investigating her past in Paris in 1955, and her mysterious benefactor, Eva, whose story unfolds in England and across Europe in the 1920s, 30s and 40s.
I was generally more engaged in Grace's story, but they are closely intertwined and I never found myself wanting to skim to get through the book faster. I loved the development of Grace's relationship with Monsieur Tissot the French lawyer, as well as her breezy interactions with her friend Mallory from back home.
The story itself was indulgent at times and sordid at others, and I thought it built up over the course of the book brilliantly and in a very compelling way.
At root, it was very predictable, but I didn't care - though I did feel the ultimate conclusion seemed very rushed and I would have preferred to spend more time with Grace after all the reveals and her eventual decisions about what she wanted to do with her life going forward.
Really involving and highly entertaining, though!

Another year older

Nov. 20th, 2025 10:30 am
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Yesterday I turned 50, which feels like it should be a bit of a milestone, but in reality has just been an excuse for a lot of cake.

Birthday cake and flowers

We went away as a family at Halloween, as it was the end of half term and meant we could get a slightly longer weekend away. Three days in a collection of cabins in the Forest of Dean, with Forest Holidays. We nominally had a halloween party on Friday night and a birthday party on Saturday but it was kind of hard to tell which bits were party (having an age range from 7 to 73 makes for rather varied party requirements) but there was cake and fizz and cocktails, and we did an outdoor puzzle game with the kids, and Mike and dad joined me in trying axe throwing, and we had a nice walk through the forest down to the river Wye with a very sulky Matthew and generally had a good time :)

Yesterday I decided not to take the day off work, and instead took in cake to share in the morning, and took my immediate colleagues to the pub at lunchtime (though they wouldn't let me pay for drinks). We had pizza and fizz and more cake for tea, and a generally chilled out and lovely day. Matthew has an inset day on Friday, so Mike's taking the day off too, and we'll go out for a visit to the Botanic Gardens and lunch at Browns. And I've invited some friends round in the morning to help eat up cake, instead of meeting them at a coffee shop (which is my usual Friday routine).

I suggested to Mobbsy and David that we should do a celebration of 150 years between us, given what a good party we had for our joint 90th, but I never did get round to throwing a party this time. We shall try and make it out to the pub next Wednesday evening instead. And next Friday our little coffee gang will be going our to the village annual wine tasting/dinner - organised by the twinning association. And then I think I'll be more or less done with birthday celebrations for the year. Thanks so much to everyone who found me elsewhere on social media (or text message, or card) to say Happy Birthday, it's been very much appreciated!

Brigands and Breadknives

Nov. 19th, 2025 12:59 pm
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Brigands & Breadknives by Travis Baldree is the follow-up to Bookshops & Bonedust, the prequel to Legends & Lattes - and I'd been looking forward to its release this month.
I listened to the audiobook, as I have with all of them, since Baldree is a professional audiobook narrator, narrates all his own books, and is really good. I love the way he embodies all the characters, making them all engaging and distinct without straying into caricature.
This story follows Fern, the ratkin bookseller befriended by Viv in the prequel, as she tries to find purpose in her life again - getting embroiled in the adventures of an elven bounty hunter along the way.
And - it was fine.
Don't get me wrong - it was an easy and entertaining listen - but it didn't really grab me like the other two, and I felt it was rather lacking in the emotional depth and wonderful found family vibes that made the others so heartwarming and thoroughly enjoyable.
I did love the breadknife of the title - he was definitely my favourite character, and I'm glad to be keeping up with the series - but I definitely missed the community and shop-running focus of the previous two books, and it was a shame that Fern was the only recurring character to really feature in the story.

Amber Anthem and Emerald Gate

Nov. 18th, 2025 06:39 pm
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The Amber Anthem is the fourth volume of the 5 Worlds comic book series by Mark & Alexis Siegel - and my favourite of the set. I loved how everyone came together to complete the mission and how it brought an end finally to the problematic attitudes of one of the main characters. It was a great lead-in to the ultimate conclusion - and the sentient oil was particularly awesome.

The Emerald Gate is the fifth and final instalment of the 5 World comic book series and provided a very satisfying ending to the whole story arc. I'm really glad I found this series and I thoroughly enjoyed it all the way through. Great characters, layered story, high stakes and emotional depth, great found family and some really beautiful art. Highly recommended.

Keys and Beacons

Nov. 17th, 2025 05:00 pm
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Key of Knowledge by Nora Roberts is the middle instalment of her Keys trilogy, in which three young women are selected to undertake a quest to find three keys, in order to free three demi-goddesses, whose souls have been trapped in a magical box for 3000 years.
This book tells Dana's story, looking for the titular Key of Knowledge, and rediscovering love with an old flame along the way. She and the other two protagonist, Mallory and Zoe, are also in the process of opening a combined beauty salon, art gallery and bookshop - and Dana is the bookseller of the group.
It's all very silly and predictable, but so much fun. I really like this world and these characters - though the romance aspect is even worse than in the first book, with two of the men planting surprise kisses on the objects of their affections at moments directly after the women have very specifically rejected them. Grrrr!
Still, I can't deny I really enjoyed this audiobook and I'm looking forward to completing the series with Key of Valor in the near future.
I especially liked the focus on books and writing in this one. And the dog is still awesome.


The Sand Warrior by Mark and Alexis Siegel is the first in the 5 Worlds comic book series, in which three young protagonists set out on a mission to light beacons across the titular five worlds, in order to reverse a climate catastrophe. Along the way, they face opposition from various of the worlds' leaders, as well as a dark entity called the Mimic.
There's a huge amount of diversity in this series - but also a lot of very complex racial politics and intolerance. Most of the authority figures turn out to be weak, corrupted or evil, leaving the youngsters floundering in trying to establish the right path to victory and unable to figure out who they should believe.
Deeper than I expected in a lot of ways, also very exciting and fun.

The Cobalt Prince continues the 5 Worlds series, with even higher stakes, even more deception from the authorities, some very weird genetic identity layers, intolerant attitudes from one of our protagonists (though clearly part of a journey of improvement), an unexpectedly high body count, and some pretty emotional aspects.
I'm really enjoying this series and keen to find out where it goes.

The Red Maze is the third in the 5 Worlds series and the best yet - really exciting, lots of interesting character development and intriguing plot. Raised stakes, great found family vibes, engaging new characters and new questions to be answered.

Winter Burrow

Nov. 16th, 2025 06:54 pm
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I tried out some game demos from Steam last week and discovered Winter Burrow, a resource management and survival game about a young mouse travelling back to their childhood burrow in the woods, after losing their parents in the city.

The cutesy art style and adorable anthropomorphic animal characters are rather at odds with the constant threat of freezing to death and brutal attacks by giant insects...

However, the cold is manageable, once you get the hang of things (my biggest problem at the start was getting lost and not being able to find my way back to the burrow in time) and the combat wasn't too difficult to master.

The storyline was mostly really lovely (with a few rather traumatic incidents along the way) and I really enjoyed completing all the various quests, which were all to do with helping and building bonds with other creatures throughout the forest.

I also particular liked the cooking progression tree, working my way up to the more complicated recipes, so as to be able to better prepare myself for the longer journeys that were required later on in the game.

It took me 12 hours to complete the whole thing, which felt about right for both the story and the repetitive nature of the gameplay.

This game was just what I was looking for - some challenges, a good story, a clear to-do list and not too grindy. It was shorter than I would have preferred for the price, but I might have got bored with it if it had gone on much longer, so I think it's been well designed after all.

The Story of a New Name

Nov. 16th, 2025 05:11 pm
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This is the second of the Neopolitan novels by Elena Ferrante.
I enjoyed the first one a couple of months ago, but just really couldn't get into this one.
It's very similar in style and content - so I think I just wasn't in the right frame of mind for it when I picked it up.
I've given up on it for now, but I may come back to the series at a future date.